Breaking the Diet Cycle
Breaking the Diet
Cycle
Do you often find
yourself going through the following cycle:
So often people
want to lose weight in the quickest possible way, without too much effort, so
the easiest option is to us a diet that has ‘proven’ results. The diet often
means giving your eating habits a complete makeover. This drastic change is a
big shock to your body and you might be able to maintain it for a couple of
weeks, or even a couple of months, but eventually you will start to feel
deprived. The longer you deprive yourself of the foods you like eating, the more
likely you are to overeat on them when you do have them (this is often after
overeating on everything else to try and avoid eating that ‘forbidden’ food).
After this binge you feel guilty and decide to diet again, but this time you
will be stricter. Eventually deprivation sets in again, and so the cycle
continues…
The only way to
break this cycle is to STOP DIETING. When
you go on a diet, besides it being an unnatural way of eating for you, you are
also putting the responsibility of weight-loss onto something outside of
yourself. Only you have the power to change your eating. When you decide to
harness this power you will realize you can control your weight without dieting.
We all know what is healthy and what isn’t, so its about eating these healthy
foods 80% of the time and allowing yourself the odd indulgence in moderation.
Once you know you are allowed to eat something if you want to, you’ll be less
inclined to overeat on it. Each day that you gain more control of your eating,
your self-esteem gets stronger. You’ll then be less likely to binge because you
will have more respect and love for your body and yourself. If you do have the
odd day that you overeat, let it go. You are not a failure as a result. Tomorrow
will be better.
How do you gain
control of your eating? You need to be honest with yourself and take a good look
at the underlying reasons for your overeating. Do you overeat when you feel sad,
unloved or when you feel you need to be rewarded? How did your battle with food
and dieting start? Were you given food to ‘make you feel better’ when you were a
child? Its not always easy to take a look inside, but you will never gain
control of your eating until you do. It takes longer for you to lose weight this
way, but the results will be lasting. You may be tempted to cover up the deeper
issues with another diet, but, like any infected wound, it will never completely
heal until you clean it out.
Once you’ve had a
good look inside and have become conscious of why you overeat or eat badly, you
can start to make little changes. When you change one element of your eating at
a time there is more chance of you sticking to it. Once you feel comfortable
with that change, then you can make the next one. The most important thing to
learn is to know when you are hungry and when you are full. When you have been
dieting over a long period of time, you may not be tuned into these basic
senses. Before eating anything ask yourself: ‘Am I really hungry?’ and when
eating a meal, stop when you are full (this is usually when the food stops
tasting as good as it did when you first started eating).
It’s very
important that you do not weigh yourself during this recovery process.
Weight-loss is not the focus, improving your self-esteem is. The weight will
come off eventually, but for now the focus is YOU.
The best way to
track your eating habits and your reasons for eating is by recording a food
diary.
(By Bronwen de
Klerk)
























